Sometimes in life we tend to get angry, sad, happy, bored and all other kinds of moods. We usual tend to say that it was someones fault but in real sense it’s our blame.

Once when I was young, not that I’m old, my grandma’ found me sad after school. She came and asked me what the matter was and I told her that one of my friends made me sad. All she did was laugh which made me more angry but she said, “In this world no one is responsible for you being sad and happy, it’s all up to you. It is all your choice to be happy or sad.” But all I did was cry and say it wasn’t me but my friends fault.

But I think all she meant was that it is someones responsibility to one’s moods that I AM IN CONTROL OF THE WHEEL OF MY LIFE. In life there 2 types of people: REACTIVE & PROACTIVE. Reactive people are like volcanoes, once an earthquake occurs it explodes and proactive people are like rivers, once an earthquake occurs they’ll just shake but still remain calm.


Let’s put it like this you’re getting ready for work then some car overtakes you, as traffic gets along, you accidentally pour coffee on your perfectly white blouse and when you reach work like two hours late for the meeting you smash your car accidentally.

In that situation it’s your choice to choose whether to let it go and laugh or be mad the whole entire day. You really don’t have to respond the way others think you should or how everyone else does it’s all up to you. The ball is in your coat.


COUNTRIES… Lets make countries THINK AGAIN!!!

In todays century, as we speak, countries which were one have been divided into halves. Many of this countries may have been divided due to political leaders.

As this still goes on in several countries up to date due to international organizations or other organizations💨. They do this just to make peace among the leaders and their supporters so that they may benefit by their minerals.

They don’t think of the people in the country, how they feel about dividing it. All they think about is the money, minerals and their own benefit.

The people or groups to blame in todays matters are the educated people, the church leaders, the government and highest social class in the society.

For the educated people, they know what is right and wrong not based by popularity, race, ethnicity or any differences in people. They can chose based on what is good for everyone. This is what can help change todays matters.

To the church leaders, they are often chosen to speak on behalf of people. They have a greater say since they are thought to be godly. They mostly speak on the benefits of others and to create peace.

The government are what makes up the country. They serve as role models and represent other people in the country. As their duty they serve others and do everything that benefits people in the county


With the highest social class, they are rich and they can help gain or lose the community. They are considered mostly as the final say at most cases but at times benefit the comunity.

All this people in the country can make an impact. For the educated, they have powerful ideas but don’t work on them.

The church leaders are a link to the people and the government but all most of them do is use money at their own fill. In the oldern times they really did strengthen the citizen and the leaders but now all that has faded.

The government as said by Abraham Lincon it is the people for the by the people all making a decision to help the people but all most do is eat and demand for a raise to benefit them.

The highest social class mostly use their money to bribe and manupilate most people for their own benefit. This is illustrated in THE ROYALS very well.

All these people are all to blame in countries without unity, peace and elections on going


Other people in this category are the leaders in society, the media and the policemen.

The leaders are all who are chosen to lead a particular group. They all do this but in an opposite way. Some are there to use up their salaries and demand for a raise. Others steal, muder and condemn about all this as if they do not know the chief in crime. Most are dictators either direct or indirect. Like they dictate others in a bad way. For the indirect, former dictators rule with current leaders indirectly without the knowledge of the citizens. This mostly works if they had a close relasionship

As a country we can chose wise leaders who have a strategy not to give out promises but solutions to meet our demands.

The media are sources of informations that give brieffings to the world i.e. radios, televisions, internet and other sources of information. Most media houses do this by showing each conten be it positive or negative. But some since they worry more about their needs just show the positive ones. They only worry about being condemned by leaders, the people and if they’ll shut down not knowing their main agenda. At times this can mislead the world. They also don’t ask relavant questions, or in simpler terms, questions to challenge the guest.

The policemen are ment to protect the citizens by their own will. This a real act of bravery and a big committment to them and the world. Most of them under go trainings but some do enter due to bribery. In some countries a high pass mark is given to meet the qualification of being a policeman but in some the grades are set at a low point. This is one of the most saddest thing, if they weren’t able to shoot for a specific target in school with a pencil, how do you expect them to hold a gun and shoot at the target. This is why at times you find them killing, destroying and beating people and things. In a senariol, they may even aim at some innocent people and leaders.

The society are also to blame for they can easily do the wrong thing and maybe not know but quickly judge others and yet when you walk their walk they will be left dumbfounded.

Fraudsters are also in this. When someone helps you to benefit in something like, to be a doctor. Later in future, you deliver a baby but later dies only to find out it’s the fraudster’s family.

Another thing that can be bad is the serving term in countries. If one race, ethnic background or gender keeps rulling, when will the others rule? This is a question to ask leaders who want to serve more than one term. We should always think of others before ourselves.

We should not be hypocrites, greedy, muderers, injust, unfair and all deadly sins of this world. Life is like a bomerang, what we send out, will always come back not at the moment but at the least moment you expect.

All this people can stop or continue with all their ability in the world. If you are one of the people above, its up to you to help others not to act as a hypocrite or to stop such deadly acts by either telling them.

These are matters to think about deeply. This people either divide or make a nation.

Thanks so much💫💫💫💫✨✨✨✨

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In this world today, there many challenges that people face that even a teenager can solve. As for this blog, I decided to write a blog in order to save the lost, broken, suicidal and the ones who are intimidated or just can’t stand up.

I want you to know that there’s never a low without a high, rain without sunshine and that we all came to this life for a purpose only that we haven’t fully realized it

We have to make each ones life easier and to make ones life a remarkable life. For it is in giving we give life to all not only to all but to us ourselves. This is my blog and a way of giving life to the few that a I caimages (6)n as a teenager.

CHANGE;peer pressure

It’s okay not to feel the goodness in you or something of the sort. This is the first step in accepting change in life. But it’s better to experience something good since too much of something is dangerous. Not all peer pressure is bad, lets talk about fitness pressure. Not all peer pressure is good; lets talk about disease contraction pressure. All this is one pressure but it’s all in one’s mindset to be controlled by all this pressure to be a peer pressure..

If one wants change they have to start it from within and let it out. If we want change in the world, it starts with you then the world. It’s from the inside to out. We often lose things which are far much important than the ‘in thing‘.

Just try as much as you can to think of your character so as to resist peer pressure that’s the only solution. Even old, young, small and others experience peer pressure. It can be of cars, shoes, technology and all others.



People’s opinions

In life, many will talk in what you’ll do, say and act. But that shouldn’t stop you to do what you want.

Most things that people say about you is just a duplicate, reflection or a mirror of them and not you.

Don’t let people’s opinion bring you down. Let them talk behind your back but you know they are behind for a reason. Just because you made a mistake and they keep talking don’t let it be an excuse let it be a motivation.

People will never like what you’re doing or saying but you know it’s your life that’s why you are living it.

Don’t prove what you are to them for you know who you are so don’t care at all.

Just leave their opinions.

  • Do whatever you want cause either way they’ll still going to talk

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Help dealing with life and depression 

  • Life can at times be difficult and you lose hope… I can relate.
  • Well you can not always know what can happened ahead. In everything that you do trust that it will work out okey😊. Believe in something and it will happened.
  • You can’t connect the dots looking forward but you can connect looking backwards. This means that when something bad or good happens in the past, you can’t see the future but later in life it might be see the result to it.
  • Maybe the harder your downfall the greater your success😊. Just hang in there life is like a roller coaster don’t stop till your ride ends💫

  • Keep living. Everyday every hour turn that pain into power✊

  • Life is like a rope, when you reach the end of it tie a knot and hang in there.

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