Sometimes in life we tend to get angry, sad, happy, bored and all other kinds of moods. We usual tend to say that it was someones fault but in real sense it’s our blame.
Once when I was young, not that I’m old, my grandma’ found me sad after school. She came and asked me what the matter was and I told her that one of my friends made me sad. All she did was laugh which made me more angry but she said, “In this world no one is responsible for you being sad and happy, it’s all up to you. It is all your choice to be happy or sad.” But all I did was cry and say it wasn’t me but my friends fault.
But I think all she meant was that it is someones responsibility to one’s moods that I AM IN CONTROL OF THE WHEEL OF MY LIFE. In life there 2 types of people: REACTIVE & PROACTIVE. Reactive people are like volcanoes, once an earthquake occurs it explodes and proactive people are like rivers, once an earthquake occurs they’ll just shake but still remain calm.
Let’s put it like this you’re getting ready for work then some car overtakes you, as traffic gets along, you accidentally pour coffee on your perfectly white blouse and when you reach work like two hours late for the meeting you smash your car accidentally.
In that situation it’s your choice to choose whether to let it go and laugh or be mad the whole entire day. You really don’t have to respond the way others think you should or how everyone else does it’s all up to you. The ball is in your coat.
n as a teenager.
nickychey 
